My Definition of a Player
So alot of people out there have mixed feelings about players. Some say they are man whores, some say they are idols, and some of them don't think that they are neither. However, being somewhat of a player myself I would like to share what my definition of a player is. To me a player is someone who takes care of his appearance, is confident, and is good with women. You see the main goal of a player is to attract women to either have sex or have a relationship. That's it! That's what I think a player is. Now I know some of you think that players are shallow but honestly I don't think they are because women are very hard to figure out and are hard to figure out what they do and don't like. Now players just found out these things and uses them to attract women.
The Eyes Tell Me Everything
What if I could tell you that you could tell if a women likes you before you even open your mouth? You would say that I am crazy right? Well I'm not in fact I'm far from it. You see women give away their initial feelings for you before you even talk to them. For instance if I am walking down the street and there is this beautiful women walking my way what I do is I look into her eyes and hold my gaze until she notices me. When she notices me (she most likely will) she will do two different things. The first is if she sees you looks away but then looks back and keeps sneaking glance then that is telling me that she likes me. The other thing is that she will look away quickly or turn her body away from you which means she doesn't like you. This is so key! Now say she does the first option, this means that you can go spit your game on her because you know that she is attracted to you and you don't have to worry about getting shot down before you start talking to her.
Why Most Men Fail At Getting the Woman's Number
So you approach a women that you like, you start talking to her but the conversation starts to fizzle out, you ask for her number and she politely says no. This happens to alot of guys out there. The problem that most men have when they are trying to get the woman's number is not captivating the women. See women like men that are interesting to talk to and not someone who is boring and dull. However, this problem can be fixed. How? Well for one thing you need to find out what the women is passionate about and keep talking about the topic. For instance if the women likes animals you could ask her what her favorite pet is and why. You get the picture? Half of the work is cut out for us guys! Another way in keeping a women interested is telling a story if you have had past experiences in that subject. Whatever it is just make sure that it is interesting and exciting.
Some Products I Suggest You Get Your Hands On
OK so becoming a ladies man is hard and there is alot of things to learn. I often have a hard time keeping all of these tips and tricks I have accumulated which is why I began searching for some ebooks to help me. So anyways here are some of the ebooks I have personally bought and have had a bunch of success with.
The Players Black Book
This Ebook is really helpful with picking up women in clubs and in general. I started using his teachings and got alot of attention from the women and actually had women chasing ME. So I would suggest you pick this ebook up because he is legit and is selling it alot cheaper than anyone else. So you can buy it and thank me later :D.
The Simple Seducer
This ebook is designed to help you meet and seduce women. It is VERY effective. I was a little skeptical when reading his book but decided to try what he said to do and sure enough it help me. This guide will help you to seduce women that you either have just met or have know for a short time. I haven't regretted buying this and Sebastion Steele is a respectible guy.
The Art of Approaching
This is yet another good ebook that helped me with my approach of women and really helped me to be more confident with women. This ebook really helped me to approach really beautiful women and it helped me to captivate them and get their number. Not to mention the fact that he has a 7 day FREE ecourse that gave away alot of golden information. Anyways you guys should really check it out.